Senior Scams, Romance Scams, and Keeping Yourself Safe in the Age of the Internet

We’re not saying scams are more common than junk mail, but at this point, your inbox might disagree. And according to police, fraud is now outpacing barking dog complaints—which is saying something.

In this publication, we're diving into a wave of scams targeting vulnerable community members, especially seniors. This one hits close to home—and it’s not going away anytime soon.

Scammers are preying on people’s emotions through romance and grandparent scams, with some victims losing over $100,000 before realizing they’ve been duped.


How It Works:

Scammers are pulling emotional strings and exploiting trust to get what they want:

  1. They initiate contact online or over the phone—posing as romantic interests, grandchildren in trouble, or trusted authorities.
  2. Victims are then manipulated emotionally, often into wiring money or sharing sensitive information.
  3. In romance scams, fraudsters build fake online relationships over weeks or months, eventually requesting large sums of money.
  4. In grandparent scams, the fraudster pretends to be a loved one in distress—begging for emergency funds to be sent quickly and quietly.


Who’s Targeted:

  • Primarily senior citizens living alone or socially isolated.
  • Individuals active on social media or online dating platforms.
  • Communities where family-oriented values are strong, making emotional manipulation easier.


Real-Life Example:

Shaler Police Chief Sean Frank said it best:

"We are getting these calls daily. One of our most frequent calls these days is about fraud and scams... and they're preying on senior citizens, typically."

In one case, a local victim was scammed out of more than $100,000 in a romance scam. The son noticed something was wrong and reported it—but getting help wasn’t easy.

“They have to want to be the victim so that you can help them,” Chief Frank added. “If they don’t see it, there’s little we can do.”

This tragic reality is becoming more common, and often, the victims are too embarrassed or convinced to accept help.


Why You Should Care:

These scams don’t just steal money—they steal trust, independence, and emotional well-being. Your parent, grandparent, or even you could be next.

Once the money is gone, it’s rarely recovered, and victims often blame themselves. That’s why early recognition and intervention are key.


Actionable Steps:

  1. Talk openly with loved ones—especially seniors—about scams and emotional manipulation.
  2. Set up bank alerts to detect unusual transactions or large transfers.
  3. Never wire money or send gift cards to someone you haven’t met in person.
  4. Use caller ID and don’t answer unknown numbers. If unsure, hang up and call the person directly.
  5. Report all suspicious contact to your local police or the FTC, even if you didn’t lose money.


Quick Tips:

Did you know? Scammers often coach victims on what to say if a bank or family member questions a withdrawal—don’t ignore red flags.

Pro Tip: Encourage elderly relatives to use a trusted family member as a second set of eyes for financial decisions or unusual requests.


Upcoming Update:

To help raise awareness, the Shaler Police Department, alongside the U.S. Attorney’s Office and Pennsylvania Attorney General, will host an event this Friday at the Shaler Library on Mt. Royal Boulevard—also streamed online.

This event will share key warning signs and safety tips for the community. Mark your calendar, or visit the library’s website for the livestream.


Stay safe, stay informed.


Keyword Definitions:

  • Romance Scam – A scam where fraudsters build fake emotional relationships to manipulate victims into sending money.
  • Grandparent Scam – A scam targeting elderly people, where the scammer pretends to be a grandchild in urgent need of money.
  • Wire Transfer – An electronic transfer of money, often used in scams because it’s difficult to reverse or trace.

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